How to Break the Pattern of Indecision | Single Moms Coach

How to Break the Pattern of Indecision

No one is ever stuck unless they choose to be. This does not mean that by choosing to be stuck they want to be stuck. Being stuck often is a result of unconscious choices that are fueled by worn out thoughts, feelings and beliefs.

If you are feeling stuck in any area of your life, you may be experiencing feelings of

  • loss
  • stagnation
  • insomnia
  • emotional numbness
  • confusion
  • depression
  • irritability
  • physical symptoms such as fatigue, loss of appetite or increased appetite.

Being stuck is an emotional issue that shows up on the physical plane as all emotional issues eventually do. Not knowing what to do is actually a spiritual blessing in disguise. It gives you an opportunity to surrender yourself and your life to a higher power, to God. It may also be an opportunity to stop and take a look deep within and reflect upon yourself, your life, your values, and what you would like to create in the future.

If there is anything in your life that you feel uncertain about and don’t know what your next steps are, follow this simple process every day until you feel internal and external changes in your life. If you do this every day, you will soon begin to feel and notice changes in your life. You will become aware of what your next steps are and the resources will come to you. God will guide you.

  1. Set a daily intention. What do you want to create for the day? How do you want to feel by the time you go to bed?
  2. What is one thing you can do to help create that?
  3. Take 5 minutes each AM and PM, close your eyes and meditate. Be silent and ask God to impress upon your mind and heart whatever message is right for you at this time.
  4. Go about your day with presence, love and intentional focus on God’s power.

Always remember this: approach every situation in your life with spiritual presence. Not from your head. Not from fear. From love, peace, wisdom and understanding. Heal and release the emotions that keep you from approaching life this way.


3 Responses to “How to Break the Pattern of Indecision”

  1. Myriam Callot on February 8th, 2011 3:28 pm

    Thank you SO MUCH for your explanation and guidance!

  2. Vibha on February 8th, 2011 5:29 pm

    Thank you so Much Marylin ! Thanks for reminding how important it is to keep coming to our source many times a day for guidance. Always love to read your new posts!


  3. single mother on March 5th, 2011 4:26 am

    Hello Marilyn.It is so nice to see a coach catering to the single moms.I read your about page and am impressed with what you have overcome.Hoping to see more posts from you in your blog.

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